Loves of a Sex Geek

Sex-Positive Counselor

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The rape of men: the darkest secret of war

Not surprised, but still horrified to hear of extensive sexual violence towards men during war. Rampant sexist stigmas mean these men face a life of rejection and isolation for the crimes committed against them. 

Filed under sexual violence sexual assault rape sexism stigma war

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Smiling Dominants


So many pictures of Dominants without a smile on their face. I get the whole ” I am a serious Dominant and not to be trifled with” thing, but damn sourpuss we are here because we want to be not because we are forced. If you are forced to be Dominant then evidently you…

I smile and twinkle when I play.

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I Am NOT Cisgendered

Gender is an increasingly complicated social construct. This is why I try to remember not to pre-gender people and let them tell me who they are.

Filed under gender Gender Roles gender expectations