Someone recently sent Me an ask that I chose not to respond to because of the way it was worded.
I may have misinterpreted it, or at least I hope I did. My response would have been quite scathing.
The person seemed to be confused, and wanted advice on how to find “real subs” who don’t have “no-no’s”.
Now, I took this as his saying that “real subs” don’t have limits.
I cannot stress enough how incredibly stupid that line of thinking it.
My personal thinking is that any sub who says they have “no limits” is either too new to know any better, lying, or needs serious psychological evaluation.
Everyone is different, even subs, and it’s simply a matter of finding one who’s limits compliment your own.
To say someone who has a limits that does not match your own isn’t a “real sub” completely invalidates you as any kind of dominant.
This is My opinion.
And mine as well.