More specifically, this Tumblr dedicated to indifferent cats who pop up/in amateur porn. I suspect I will be mightily distracted in my regular porn consumption by being on the look out for indifferent feline supporting actors.
If you haven’t yes seen this site it is a must. You will see a photo of a womans cervix for every day of her cycle. This 25 year old woman has never given birth and has no history of STIs. Each photo was taken at approximately 10:00 pm every day starting the first day of her menstrual cycle. For…
I guess, as the old saying goes, the more things change the more they stay the same. I was talking to a young woman today and she made a comment about ‘how to please a man’. It went something along the lines of “feed him and then suck his cock”. I was suddenly reminded very much of my wife when I first met her all those years ago. She was raised with a similar view. As I said, the more things change the more they stay the same. The question, is where do woman get these ideas?
Let me get this out on the table. It takes a hell of a lot more than food and a blow job to make a man happy. You might get away with that with boys but never men. We can feed ourselves, bath, jerk off and wipe our own asses. We don’t need to be taken care of! What do men need then? What makes men happy? Partners! A man wants a woman who is willing to work with him through the hard times and knows how to enjoy the good ones. We want someone to share sorrows and joys with. We don’t want someone to nurse and humor us, we want lovers, friends and companions. These are the things that make us happy.
Oh, and when it comes to sex we want someone who is not only good, game and giving; we want someone who is willing to receive! None of this “no that was OK” or “oh, no I don’t feel like cumming” or “whatever you want to do”. BULLSHIT! Tell me how you like it, what you want to do and how you want it to be done. We are adults; this guessing game went out of fashion in elementary school. Share your fantasies, your desires or even what needs to be done to make sex better for you. Men have no problems receiving pleasure but it cannot be one sided.
Is every woman like this? Of course not. But that philosophy is still out there and it needs to be stopped!
Now, through all of this I’ve use the hetero-normative voice. But guess what. This applies to every group of adults. There are LGBT people who have the same problem. This isn’t about straight men and straight women. It is a human problem.
We all must remember that if you are only trying to please the other people in your life you will only succeed in aggravating them. Find what makes you happy and then share it with the ones you love.
And if that love includes blow jobs, I don’t think that there would be many men who would mind. Just give us a chance to return the favor. :-)
“If you’re a “nice guy” to a girl up until you realize she doesn’t want to date you, then go on about how she’s a cold shrew that friendzoned you and how no girls date nice guys, like, nah mate, girls do date nice guys. You just aren’t a nice guy. You’re a passive aggressive beta with internalized misogyny and a serious victim complex.”—Via Tumblr & @TangledSins (Thanks! this is exactly what I mean!)
(And if you call me a bitch for it, you move to the deletion zone!)
“But most of all, stop thinking that what people so loathingly refer to as the “friendzone” is some sort of purgatory women put “nice guys” into. My friendship is not a crappy consolation prize that you’re left with if I deny you a sexual relationship– and my body is not your reward for good behavior.” - (Thanks @TangledSins !)
“Whenever I hear a headline like, ‘Marriage Ruined by Cheating,’ or ‘An Open Marriage Fails—It Just Never Works,’ I’m tempted to point to a divorce somewhere else and declare, ‘Marriage Ruined by Monogamy.’”—Pamela Haag on BigThink.com
Hi! I just started a tumblr, the Transgender Couchsurfing Network. After seeing dozens of posts come across my dash about displaced or homeless trans people needing places to crash, I decided that there had to be a way to organize these posts somehow, and to put those in need in contact with those willing to lend a hand. If you’re trans and need a place to stay, or if you have a couch or floor or spare bedroom available for someone in need, I urge you to reblog this post, follow the blog, and get the word out. Everything is still under heavy construction, but the more people that see and hear about this blog, the more people will be able to benefit from it! I know that there are so many people here on tumblr who are in need of a place to stay for a night or two, and I also know how many amazing, wonderful people would be willing to host someone and help out a trans person in need. We all know what a huge problem unemployment and homelessness are for trans people (especially TPOC and trans women) — even a place to stay for a night can make the biggest difference! So PLEASE, even if you can’t offer up your couch, REBLOG AND SIGNAL BOOST. I really, really think that this is something that could help a lot of people, and I would LOVE to see this spammed all over my dash and the dashes of all of my lovely followers!!