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naktivated:

nudiarist:

Taking a splash as a nudist | UniversityPost http://universitypost.dk/article/taking-splash-nudist#.UT8fLYtFubg.twitter”The place is full of people of all shapes and sizes. Next to me stands a small, perfectly round, couple. A wrinkly bum walks by. Large and small breasts, large and small penises, thighs and stomachs. I try to keep my wandering eyes at eye level, but I don’t really succeed. I have never seen so many naked people, and in a moment, I will join the ranks of the naked.” 

Dive right in.

This weekend I’m heading to a local nudist resort for a lovely day poolside and I am looking forward to being free under the sun from society’s constricting clothes once more.

naktivated:

nudiarist:

Taking a splash as a nudist | UniversityPost http://universitypost.dk/article/taking-splash-nudist#.UT8fLYtFubg.twitter

The place is full of people of all shapes and sizes. Next to me stands a small, perfectly round, couple. A wrinkly bum walks by. Large and small breasts, large and small penises, thighs and stomachs. I try to keep my wandering eyes at eye level, but I don’t really succeed. I have never seen so many naked people, and in a moment, I will join the ranks of the naked.” 

Dive right in.

This weekend I’m heading to a local nudist resort for a lovely day poolside and I am looking forward to being free under the sun from society’s constricting clothes once more.

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Filed under nudism freedom equality

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amelia-ace:

A little off-topic for this blog, but I have a point to make.
It’s your body. You can dress how you like, pierce it as you like, tattoo it, modify it in any way you see fit. Nobody has the right to give you crap about what you do to it. Shave your head if that’s what you want. Don’t shave your armpits, or your legs, if that will make you happy.
You chose who gets to explore your body with you. Have sex if you want it, with who you want it with (if they want it too, of course.) Ignore anyone who tells you otherwise.
And of course, if you don’t want sex, that’s cool too. Your body is yours. Do with it what you will.

amelia-ace:

A little off-topic for this blog, but I have a point to make.

It’s your body. You can dress how you like, pierce it as you like, tattoo it, modify it in any way you see fit. Nobody has the right to give you crap about what you do to it. Shave your head if that’s what you want. Don’t shave your armpits, or your legs, if that will make you happy.

You chose who gets to explore your body with you. Have sex if you want it, with who you want it with (if they want it too, of course.) Ignore anyone who tells you otherwise.

And of course, if you don’t want sex, that’s cool too. Your body is yours. Do with it what you will.

(via genderfluidity)

Filed under freedom of choice freedom choice gender consent

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A Quick Guide to Whether a Woman Owes You Something

Dude:
I want to know if a woman owes me something.
Guide:
Well, did you enter into a loan contract with a woman, providing her with goods or money that has not yet been returned?
Dude:
No.
Guide:
Hmm. Well, do you have some other contractual agreement to provide goods or services in exchange for a compensation that has not yet been made?
Dude:
No.
Guide:
It doesn't sound like a woman owes you something.
Dude:
What if I sent her a private message on this web forum we both post at.
Guide:
Ah. She doesn't owe you shit.
Dude:
Well, what if I sent her a message on a dating site. That's just be rude to ignore.
Guide:
She doesn't owe you shit.
Dude:
Isn't it just common courtesy to write a detailed explanation of why she won't respond favorably to me after I've messaged her five times?
Guide:
She doesn't owe you shit.
Dude:
What if we go on a date and I buy her dinner...
Guide:
Doesn't owe you shit.
Dude:
Or if we've been dating a few months, and...
Guide:
Doesn't owe you shit.
Dude:
Well, how about we're married and I'm in the mood...
Guide:
She. Doesn't. Owe. You. Shit.
Dude:
Shouldn't I at least be entitled to some sort of...
Guide:
Don't owe you shit.
Dude:
Well, I don't think that's very decent.
Guide:
She still won't owe you shit.

Filed under expectation gender norms gender roles rape culture entitlement sexism freedom choice consent

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In response to Jenna Marbles’ new video.

Listen up, ladies:

If you want to have a lot of sex, do it.
If you want a lot of partners, go for it.
If you want to be polyamorous, do it.
If you want to have sex with men, yes.
If you want to have sex with women, yes.
If you want to have sex with anyone in between, yes.
If you don’t want to have sex, don’t have sex.
If you want sex in the butt, do it.
If you want to have oral sex, do it.
If you want to be with one person, go for it.
If you want to slut-shame others, DON’T.

I just looked up her latest video and I’m sad to say that I’m horribly disappointed. I’d been watching more of Jenna’s work lately and was enjoying her quirky nature. Now I will be avoiding watching her videos because I won’t financially support someone with such a judgmental attitude when she’s grossly uninformed about STDs.

What I commented on the video: 

Herpes is NOT caused by casual sex. It does not decide to transmit to certain ppl. You can catch herpes from a monogamous partner who was either untested, or received a (very common) false negative test result. You can even catch herpes without engaging in sex! Educate yourself Jenna.

(Source: asdamagedasme, via homosensuous-deactivated2014022)

Filed under freedom sex-positive stds sexuality sexual health discrimination

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elizabethbanner:

there is nothing wrong with talking about sex

there is nothing wrong with wanting sex

there is nothing wrong with feeling almost desperate for sex

there is nothing wrong with talking about your sex life in an appropriate setting

there is nothing wrong with being sexually open

or liking sex

or loving sex

or having a lot of sexual partners

there’s nothing wrong with being sex positive if you do it for you

it’s okay

now go, be free, fuck~

(Source: elizabethbanner, via allthechocolatesinthebox)

Filed under slut shaming sex positive sex sexuality freedom

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To me, sex-positive means embracing one’s identity/values and encouraging the same free expression with others in an open and honest environment. It’s a matter of not desperately trying to fit into societal molds - instead, it’s a matter of creating a definition for oneself through self-exploration and personal development.

Yenling, CSPH Programming Intern, Fall 2012

[Part of our weekly Sex Positive Saturday series! Visit http://thecsph.tumblr.com for more, or to submit your own definitions.]

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Filed under sex-positive expression honesty identity freedom uniqueness